Working out the "Kinks"

One of the most important things in my eyes through this process is the ability to be able to discuss things, just as we were able to before diving head first into this lifestyle. I believe that is going to be pivotal to our success. Work has been rather busy this week, for Mistress and myself, after arriving home from work yesterday I was very edgy, and simply wanted to get my chores done and go meet up with a good friend. She had a client coming over (no, she's not an escort, its her little business pertaining to clothes) and had to rush to make some last minute changes to the garment. Well after going and seeing my friend and coming home and finishing the yard work, I was about as wore out as you could be and had a few things on my mind. While my shower warmed I asked her to please sit down on the bed so we could talk...I asked more than a dozen times and it ended with her getting frustrated and angry, for no apparent reason. Stress is something I have learned to cut out from my life, and I'm a much happier person because of it and I'm trying to teach her those skills.
Mistress leads a busy life, both in and out of the home. By the end of the day small things can set her off...and I'm normally her target. This is not something new, it almost led to our undoing over a year ago. And I hate seeing her so stressed, not because she takes it out on me, but because I love her to death and stress is something avoidable if you know how to handle it. Stressing takes years off your life; it's proven! So I've been trying to help her cope with it and remove it from her life all together, last night I think we had a big break through, and I fully think it's going to help her out in all aspects of her life, not simply chastity. After I took a shower I sat on the couch and ate dinner, and told her what I wanted to talk to her about was very serious, and wasn't something I wanted to wait for. "If I tell you I truly need to talk to you, it's important". Her demeanor changed and I could tell she knew I was serious. We discussed why she gets so mad, and how to deal with it. She's more focused on trying to figure out what is stressing her than just not worrying about those things in the first place. The conversation was a good one, one which I'm glad we had. We discussed her not taking out problems and vanilla stresses on me via the lifestyle, and how that was a huge red flag, ultimately she understood where I was coming from and agreed. There was no training or play other than being diapered before bed, as always. And that was ok by me, these "kinks" are important to work out and it's best to get them out of the way now. Just as in anything, building a foundation is the most important thing we can do right now.
On a side note I think I may have had a "wet dream" not sure, haven't had one in over 10 years. But when I woke up the other morning, things felt, well sticky and I had lost all my horniness...which is somewhat sad since the build up is the only thing which drives me to be better.
She told me to be in my maids outfit when she gets home, I have some chores I need to do and some work outside which is not planned. I'm going to text her and let her know I plan on working on the back yard, so if I'm not in uniform it's because I'm out back making our weekend easier.

Will update this evening before bed.

Deb